Viewing our Families Through a Comprehensive Lens
In Units 1-4, many societal issues impacting the family have been discussed. They include the unique constellation of families, the impact of social class, how families have evolved over the years as impacted by social movements, family crisis and stress, domestic violence, the decision to remain single, choose a life partner, and cohabitation.
In this assignment, you will look at your life through this lens.
Instructions:
- Based on your research, describe the following:
o What concepts from the course you see in your own family?
o What has impacted your family’s constellation, and has it changed over time?
o How are partners chosen, and how has the family responded to times of stress?
- It is important you provide concrete examples and connect them to outside literature references to support your key points.
Viewing My Family Through a Comprehensive Lens
Upon reflecting on the concepts covered in Units 1-4, I can identify several elements that resonate with my own family. These concepts include the unique constellation of families, the impact of social class, the evolution of families over time, family crisis and stress, domestic violence, the decision to remain single, choose a life partner, and cohabitation. By examining my family’s experiences, I can gain a deeper understanding of how these concepts have influenced our dynamics.
Impact on Family Constellation
My family’s constellation has been significantly impacted by various factors. Firstly, our cultural background has played a role in shaping our family structure. Coming from an Asian background, the concept of filial piety and the importance of intergenerational relationships have influenced our family dynamics. We have a close-knit extended family network, with regular gatherings and strong ties with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Additionally, social class has had an impact on our family constellation. As members of the middle class, we have experienced both advantages and limitations. Economic stability has allowed us access to education, healthcare, and opportunities that have positively influenced our overall well-being. However, financial constraints have also affected decisions regarding housing choices and access to certain resources.
Over time, our family’s constellation has evolved due to societal changes and individual life stages. For instance, as my siblings and I have grown older, pursued higher education, and embarked on careers, we have become more independent and have gradually established our own households. However, despite these changes, we maintain strong bonds and continue to prioritize family connections.
Partner Selection and Family Response to Stress
In terms of partner selection within my family, there is a combination of arranged marriages and love marriages. While traditional arranged marriages were prevalent among older generations, the younger generation has more freedom to choose their life partners based on personal compatibility and mutual affection. This shift reflects the influence of social movements advocating for individual autonomy and personal choice in matters of the heart.
During times of stress or crisis within our family, we have observed different coping mechanisms and responses. Communication plays a vital role in addressing stressors effectively. Family members gather to discuss issues openly and provide emotional support to one another. We also seek professional help when needed, such as attending therapy sessions or seeking counseling services. These strategies help promote resilience and strengthen our bond as a family.
Concrete examples from my family’s experiences include instances where we navigated through financial challenges together. During a period of job loss for one family member, we rallied together to provide emotional support, offered financial assistance, and explored new avenues for employment. Such instances have taught us the importance of mutual support, adaptability, and resilience.
In connecting my family experiences to outside literature references, I found studies by Amato and Previti (2003) on the impact of divorce on family dynamics particularly relevant. Their research highlights the importance of effective communication and emotional support within families during times of stress. Additionally, research by Cherlin (2010) on the changing nature of family structures emphasizes the influence of societal changes on family constellations.
In conclusion,
by examining my family through the lens of concepts covered in Units 1-4, I have gained a deeper understanding of how societal factors impact our family constellation, partner selection process, and response to stress. Our cultural background, social class, and evolving societal norms have all shaped our dynamics. Through open communication and mutual support, we navigate challenges together and foster resilience within our family unit.
References:
Amato, P.R., & Previti, D. (2003). People’s reasons for divorcing: Gender, social class, the life course, and adjustment. Journal of Family Issues, 24(5), 602-626.
Cherlin, A.J. (2010). Demographic trends in the United States: A review of research in the 2000s. Journal of Marriage and Family, 72(3), 403-419.